30th October 2017
4. Missing Someone
Missing someone. What is it to miss someone, the mental connections such like a stimulating memory being tugged away? Is it their physical presence, their touch, their vibe? Like we say the term miss quite broadly yet distinctively mean only one meaning that that person, that object, that thing is not where it was, should be or where you'd like it to be hence it is 'missing'; many associate memories and 'the good times' with things that are 'missing' but is that what our brain is telling us or our heart? They are two different entities that need to be assessed, the heart is the determination, the love, the compassion you have towards that person/object/thing where as contrary the brain is the thoughts, the 'memory bank' so to speak of them 'good times' and it craves that mental stimulation by seeing/touching/communicating with them/that thing.
So the real question is do you actually miss that person/object/thing or is it your mind giving you a false positive?